I know I sound a little tight saying this but money is tight.
Anyway, my friend with a DD occasionally buys my DD presents. Just for no reason but she wants to. She is really nice and we know each other through a mummy coffee morning that we both went to during our maternity leave. Now I occasionally pop round to see her and her DD with my DD after work. She has told me that she has got my DD a Christmas present and tbh I'm a bit at it because now I feel obliged to get her DD a present in return. To make it harder her DD has everything. She gives more toys away to a charity shop (a couple came our way) in a month than my DD has had since she was born (she is 8mo). The pricier toys I have carefully picked out for Christmas for my DD her DD gets just due to her having cousins a couple of years older who have grown out of them.
Just re-read my paragraph and I want to make it clear I am not jealous of my friends child having lots of toys. I just feel that since she has everything already getting her a present that meets her (the mum and DD) expectations is not an easy task.
AIBU to just want everyone to buy only for their own children?
AIBU to not buy lots of toys for my DD? She does have some, I'm buying her 2 toys and a push along walker for Christmas and my DSis has bought her a toy. Is this the norm or am I a little tight?
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1Catherine1 · 07/12/2011 22:34
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