I'm thinking of applying for jobs in Brazil. Not permanently, just for a few years. My extended family (mainly my mother - understandably I guess - are outraged)
My reasoning:
I am totally in love with the country and one of my main passions is working with street children.
My children are half Brazilian and their father has always lived there. They have never met him and I don't think I'd want them to but I guess that could always change.
I think it's good for my children to know that not all children are as fortunate as UK kids are.
I speak fairly fluent Portuguese and my children can get by in the language.
My children could attend an English speaking school
My Mum's argument:
I am being selfish and not thinking of my children's best interests, just my own wants
My grandparents are old and could die while I am gone
My children's father is an awful man and I don't want to run the risk of him finding us.
Young children shouldn't be exposed to children living in poverty
Brazil is not a safe environment
I haven't mentioned the idea to the children yet. I think they'd be up for it but I acknowledge I may be being selfish.
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manicinsomniac · 22/11/2011 22:06
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