I'd like to get some opinions on this!
In my opinion my Father is very self absorbed and sometimes downright selfish in the sense it is all about him, how things affect him and only looking at situations from his own perspective. He doesn't do this on purpose and is not a bad person, he has just been very spoilt during his life and doesn't have great social skills.
He has gone from one relationship disaster to the next & is rarely single. He spends all his money on psychotherapy and new age retreats, which I feel is a good thing, although for him it seems to make him more self absorbed..
He is now quite lonely & lost in his life after his last break up and I feel I need to tell him where I think he is going wrong, not out of spite but out of concern. I don't want to hurt him and I realise this is only my perception (although DH & my mum also find him selfish)
We have a good relationship & are very open with each other.
AIBU?!?!
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To tell my Dad I think he is selfish and if he is to be happy he needs to address this?
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BoobleBeep · 22/11/2011 10:07
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