Background: I am the oldest of 3 children. I have 2 DC and am expecting number 3, younger sis has 3 DC and younger brother has none (only 19 years old). We all have partner's that we live with, I am in a same-sex relationship that my dad disapproves of. All in a similar financial situation, not exactly rich but not exactly struggling either.
Younger sis has mental health problems and as a result has a lot of help and support from other members of the family in caring for her children, means my parents are closer to her children than mine IFSWIM as her children sleep at my parents 3 nights a week.
My youngest child suffers from Autism, ADHD and Global Development Delay, as a result he does not talk and is not potty trained. Not massively relavant but my dad is old fashioned and 'dosn't believe' in the conditions and thinks he is hard work and deliberately rude to not speak to people. As a result he is not close to my children AT ALL.
All 3 of us drive, my brother has just passed his test and does not have a car yet. I passed many years ago but do not have a car as can't afford to run one. Sis has a cheap little run around.
All 3 of us live very local to each other and we are a close family.
Phew that's it I think, don't want to drip feed!
Anyway my dad has just bought a new car (great for him) and told me my sis was buying the old one from him, again fine with me. The old one is 3 years old, excellent condition and worth around 6-7 thousand.
Anyway was chatting to sis who then told me that actually my dad was GIVING her the car, wasn't too happy about this as felt it was unfair considering she was the only one to already have a car and felt it would be better for dad to have sold it considering he could do with the money.
Anyway mentioned it to my dad who told me 'she needs it for the kids' not sure why as she has the little car and lets face it not many people NEED a car unless of course you work out of town etc. which none of us do.
Left it at that as I thought about it and I wouldn't have wanted to car anyway as I can't afford to run it so pointless to argue about. Although my dad knows that I am in the process of saving up for a cheap run around as with my DS having SEN it is hard to get around sometimes.
Anyway a week later sis SELLS THE CAR that has been given to her and keeps her little run around, the reason being she could not afford to insure it.
I am not fuming and think why on earth has she been given this car, to sell on and now have a few grand in her pocket. It seems my dad knew this was the plan and gave it to her anyway.
AIBU to think my dad is a complete twat and is clearly favouring one child over his other's. I am apparantly being a spoilt brat and should count myself lucky.
To make matters worse sis is has been saying all week how pleased she is because now she can afford a holiday after christmas and is going to buy a puppy with the rest. So it isn't like she had essential debts/ rent etc to clear.
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AIBU?
To think my dad is a complete twat. Long sorry!
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SacreLao · 06/11/2011 01:14
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