I posted this in relationships but didn't really get anything to help guide my fears away.
I stay at my boyfriends house 6 nights out of 7. Things are good between us...he's caring and affectionate, and I thought, honest.
Yesterday while I was out at work he text me to say he was cleaning out under the bed. He'd done a good job, emptied everything out from under it.
This morning while he was at work I was looking for something of mine that usually lives under the bed, so looked in the wardrobe. I saw a carrier bag in there so looked in it and found dirty clothes of his ex and her baby boy. he says they broke up 3 months before we met, and there were receipts from about 5 months before we met in the bag, so I don't believe he cheated and they stayed over, just that they had stayed, the clothes had been put under the bed, and yesterday moved to the bag of the wardrobe.
DP says the clothes must've come over acidentally when he moved over from his old flat, and that he'd put the carrier bag in the back of the wardrobe not knowing what they were and that I should throw them out.
I think he's talking bollocks. I don't know why, but I just do.
First of all I think the clothes were under the bed and he'd moved them to the wardrobe yesterday, but all I want to know is why the fuck didn't he throw them out? I've tried to question him but all he's saying is they've been there since he moved in.
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justelliotandme · 03/11/2011 16:25
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