DS is 4. He goes to nursery and has lunch there, 4 days a week. He only started in September. He's not a big eater really, so on the first day, I put in a selection of things for him, thinking that that way he would at least something. All quite healthy: a sandwich, fruit, raisins, some pretzels, a drink and a cereal bar.
So, at the end of the first day a note comes back saying "No cereal bars, some children are allergic to seeds and nuts". Fine, I said, so I don't give him anything with seeds or nuts at all.
then a list came round of all the things that were banned: not just seeds and nuts but anything with chickpeas, dairylea (?), crisps, sweets.
Fair enough I said, and I don't send any of those things.
But yesterday I was taken aside by the teacher and told (in a very "serious" tone) that I was putting FAR TOO MUCH in DS's lunchbox, and that this is VERY serious because they have a policy that the kids must eat everything and throw nothing away. "You are making your son feel very stressed" she said, because he can't eat it all.
I wish someone had told me about this damn policy, and I might understand. But they didn't and frankly even if they had, I am getting really rather tired of the dictats. can't I give him a (small, healthy) selection. They never do throw it away, it comes back in the lunchbox and we have a chat about whether he would like something different. Most days he does eat it all.
Oh I know this is trivial but AIBU to be annoyed that (a) they didn't tell me in advance what the aim was (b) they made me feel like a crap 'feeder' mother and (c) that offering a small selection which doesn't always get eaten isn't awful in any event?
(flame proof hat and big fireman's hose at the ready).
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To do what on earth I LIKE with DS's packed lunches? Bloody nursery. Ranty rant alert
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LittleOneMum · 19/10/2011 11:05
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