warning - this is quite long and a bit rambling.
I'm currently 16 weeks pregnant and for the past 10 months have been doing 3 people's jobs. I have never complained, never been late with any work, have managed to keep up a high standard of work, have taken tasks home with me and worked over my weekends to ensure that everything was done. I have now returned to work after 2 weeks signed off sick because of back pain. This has been so horrendous I was on crutches and before being signed off ended up crawling myself up to bed as I had no other way of getting there.
The two weeks I had off have helped massively and following recommendations from my physiotherapist I have been working on strengthening my muscles to help support my back. I had my return to work today and on my 'fit note' the doctor stated I should be doing reduced hours and amended duties. She has made me feel like crap because I can't just do my 9 to 5 and then work from home one day, stating "what will it look like to the rest of the team". I feel horrible now and am worrying about how I'm going to cope for another couple of months - all of this is made worse by the fact DH is working away and won't be home for another 2 months.
Really AIBU to think that all the years of hard work and effort I have made for the organisation, the fact that I have also been doing her job for the past 2 years while she swans about and doesn't do anything but likes to take credit for our teams "reputation for always delivering", the fact my DH is away and the fact I'm struggling from pain in what has already been a difficult pregnancy - that any person with an ounce of sympathy would look at me and try to help matters rather than making me feel like dirt for not being able to work at my former level. Have I missed something here as I'm feeling very rubbish at the moment!!!!
Any ideas of how to deal with this situation would also be welcome - thank you all for your replies.
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InsomniaQueen · 07/10/2011 20:21
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