To be annoyed that dh has come home with viagra?

[pink4ever]

I am a bit Sex life has been pretty dire for about the past 5 years but he doesnt have any problems getting it up. Just never seems that interested in doing the deed. If it were up to him we would probably dtd once a month,whereas if it up to me it would be more like 3 times a week.

I have tried all the usual stuff to reignite his interest-toys,dress up etc and I did jokingly suggest he try viagra-but it was genuinely just that-a joke.

So am I bu that he has ordered it without even discussing it with me?. Also makes me feel a bit shit about myself if am honest-that he feels the need to use this to want to have sex with me.

[Witchofthenorth]

Did he take it is a joke?

Personally, I would have some fun You may go AWOL for days :o

I wouldn't take it as he needs Viagra to have sex with you to be honest and more that he is trying to increase his sex drive to compromise with your higher one. However, that is only my opinion and I am sure others will be along shortly.

[Roseflower]

Well he is making in effort to improve and make things better for both of you.

Don't give him a hard time about it (no pun intended!)

[balia]

Maybe he seems not interested because he's worried about maintaining his erection and viagra makes him feel more confident?

[squeakytoy]

I did jokingly suggest he try viagra... not really something to joke about unless you want to deflate his ego even more though...

So he has taken you at your word and seems willing to give it a go. Perhaps he has been having problems in that department, and it is the reason he has been avoiding sex. I wouldnt have a go at him if he is trying to do something about it.

[MangoMonster]

Agree with witchofthenorth

[FabbyChic]

Hey it shows he wants to try to please you, not sure what your problem is be pleased he loves you enough to try. Getting Viagra from the doctors costs a fortune.

[HecateGoddessOfTheNight]

So he's got a lower sex drive than you and he has taken action so that he can perhaps have sex more often because he knows you want to?

It's pretty humiliating for a bloke (normally) to admit he can't get it up (and you don't buy viagra if the old chap is working at his best!) yet he's done it - for you. Not for him, because he's happy with "once a month" but for you, because you want sex more.

I think he sounds like he loves you and wants to please you.

[unfitmother]

I agree, you should be pleased.

[pink4ever]

So maybe I am bu then? he didnt get it from the doctors either-got it from online pharmacy(reputable one though). Still think he should have discussed it with me first though-maybe it will be fun-bit worried now in case he becomes more rampant than me!

[catgirl1976]

Take some as well pink and enjoy

[Witchofthenorth]

Have fun

[PomBearAtTheGatesOfDawn]

He could have come home with VD!!!
Just er, lie back and think of frootshoots?

[edwinbear]

I bloody well wish my DH would get some.

[troisgarcons]

TBH - you'd better hope he hasn't got any undiagnosed medical conditions.... I hope he didnt get quack stuff from the internet and went to his doctor

[Flowerista]

YABU - a DH who does as he is told is to be cherished. Now, get thee upstairs to thy bed woman!

[Roseflower]

Are you sure he should be taking stuff he got off the net though... you don't want it to be dangerous

[Proudnscary]

Pop in the post to me, I'll...ummm....confiscate it.

[MissVerinder]

Erm.... How does it work on women?

[CupOfBrownJoy]

get stuck in