Long story cut short:
My dad lives in sheltered accom due to alz, he is not ready for a care home yet. I have been looking after him for the last 18 months. I also make sure that the old biddies are ok
typical examples:
If one has forgot to get thier prescriptions I go and get them
If one has no milk I go get it
On a Friday I go get the fish and chips for thier supper
On the royal wedding I organised a party for them
One of the residents had a 80th birthday last weekend and I made sure she had the music she needed
I organised a big tv for the common room so they can all watch it
They wanted a kareoke so organised it and even got the music they wanted
blah blah blah
Anyway, a couple of weeks ago the warden promised to get a birthday cake from one of the residents to the other and then realised she would not have the time so she asked me to get it for her. No problem I said and that is exactly what I did. Only I made the error of getting the cake and putting it in the kitchen and not delivering it to the person who had brought it (even though she was actually out having her hair done and had no way of delivering it to her flat).
I then get to my dads yesterday and come into a frosty atmosphere and immediately knew something was wrong :(
Could not deal with it because I had to deal with my dad :(
Anyway, today I have gone to dads place and spoke to the warden who has informed me that "Sheila" is gunning for me
Conversation goes:
Me. Hello sheila are you ok
shelia. No I fucking am not
me. ok I get from the frosty atmosphere yesterday this has something to do with the cake, I am sorry made a mistake with that i apologise
sheila: so you fucking should be you ruined my weekend, you are always interferring, you dont live here so mind your own fucking business :(
there is more and it went on and on and I had to keep my mouth shut because they are my elders but sitting her tonight fuming :(
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to be so fecking angry that I cannot retalitate at the old lady at my dads place
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sunshinelifeisgood · 26/07/2011 23:11
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