My DH and I are supposed to be ging out tomorrow night, it is an old school friends of his 40th birthday, fancy dress in a village hall, and camping in a field as this friend lives in a very small village that it would cost a fortune to get a taxi home. I am not keen (I like my own home comforts) but did agree to go as we don't often seem to do much as a couple anymore.
However, it has now clashed with a girls night out in town that I would prefer to go to. Several reasons for this. The girls don't get together often, it promises to be a good night having a nice meal, few drinks and taxi home to sleep in own bed. The 40th birthday party is likely to involve drink and drugs, camping in a field does not appeal at all, with a load of 40 somethings off their heads remeniscing how it was 'back in the day'.
My DH & I did used to party alot many years ago but I am just not really interested in that scene anymore. I can't deal with the lack of sleep, come down feeling etc. For me the highs are not worth the lows.
AIBU to go out with the girls and not my DH ?
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to go for a night out with the girls rather than with my DH?
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messagetoyourudy · 08/07/2011 11:22
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