to hate giving bj's?

[LoveMyOscar]

I hate giving dp oral sex. He doesn't give me oral sex neither but expects it from me. I hate getting jaw ache and the feeling of wanting to vomit, and let's not even go there if he ejaculates in my mouth. I do enjoy penetrative sex, as does dp. The relationship is quite new. AIBU to refuse to give dp oral sex because I dislike it so much?

[LoveMyOscar]

He says he hasn't liked the taste and how his tongue aches when he's done it to ex partners. He has never given me oral sex so I could taste different!

[TheOriginalFAB]

You shouldn't do anything in the bed room that you don't want to do.

[ilovedora27]

I would say do 69 that way you get an orgasm out of it and when you are getting pleasure you never get jaw ache or even notice your doing it. Once you start doing 69 you will both get addicted though we do it about 3/4 times a week sometimes with sex after, sometimes not. There is nothing better imo enjoy!

[drivemecrazy63]

what about using flavours [grins] make it tastier

[MollysChamber]

If you don't like it don't do it.

[missymoola]

I don't think it's fair to expect it from you if he won't give you oral. Don't do it if you don't like it!

[inchoccyheaven]

I couldn't do 69 as I can't concentrate on him when enjoying myself [embarrassed} We take it in turns although I give more than I receive grr. Not that I mind giving at all ( enjoy the power ) but would like to recieve more.

Anyway I have a friend that only gives them using fruity flavoured condoms as she can't bear the taste of him or the mess so this works for her.

Ultimately though you don't have to do it if you don't want to, and definitely not ok for him to have double standards!

[Ormirian]

i'm not keen and I definitely would NOT do it if her didn't reciprocate. Just tell him now till he gets down to it too.

[TheMagnificentBathykolpian]

No. You certainly are not.

"I won't be doing it. I don't like the taste. You can understand and respect that."

Bloody cheek of the man if you ask me (which you didn't, but that has never stopped me yet) to expect something from you when he is not prepared to do the same for you.

[AnyFucker]

you don't have to do anything you don't enjoy

particularly since he doesn't return the favour

this is a new relationship ? oh dear

who the fuck does he think he is ?

tell him to take a hike

[WriterofDreams]

I hate it too and never give DH oral sex. He would like to go down on me but I don't like that either so there's no oral at all for us!

[ithinkgoranwouldbegoodinbed]

I agree with AnyFucker

For the record, I love giving and receiving in that department. Can't say I keep a tally but I reckon we are honours even or thereabouts.

But honestly, if you don't like doing anything in the bedroom, don't do it.

[dadof2ofthem]

my dw doesnt like it too much either, nor does she like me going down on her , well she does , but only when she has just had a shower, i try to tell her that if i'm horney enough to go down on her then it really doesnt matter if she has just had a shower or been at work all day. but maybe thats just me . it isnt fair that he is happy to recieve without giving though.

[drivemecrazy63]

wow a brave man to join the fray dadof nice to see a few men on board

[JoySzasz]

I think he needs to learn how to get good at giving it to you.

If he learnt a few tricks he tongue wouldn't ache

Then you might get over the distasteful bits

I am lazy however,and shouldn't be giving any advice.

[Pumpernickel10]

I love giving and receiving and if he doesn't give you oral sex op how the fuck does he know how you taste?

[Awomancalledhorse]

If he cba to go down on you, you shouldn't have to go down on him.
If DH didn't want to give me it, then he'd have to work out how to DIY!

If he was doing it right to his exes he wouldn't have tongue ache!

[JoySzasz]

I think, he thinks we all taste the same

Just an excuse anyway.

Like I said,he needs to practice and develop those muscles.

[Pumpernickel10]

Are you the same dad "dadof2littlebuggers" who did a word by word account of your wanking? Methinks you name changed here

[AnyFucker]

he sounds shit in bed

get rid of him

[Pumpernickel10]

It is the same dad, same spelling too. Did you name change because of how vile you made us feel on that porn thread.

[queenmaeve]

its monday ffs!!!

[Pumpernickel10]

It's not even 1/2 term yet