DH is self employed working from homeand he works everyday including weekends and pretty much every evening. This has been for the last year. However, I am starting to think that he is taking the piss a bit - I find out he has been watching films while he is working and also if one one of his family asks him to go out etc he is suddenly able to take the day off, if I ask him he is too busy. I have mentioned it but tbh I am not going to stand there and beg so I have not made it a huge issue. He DOES work hard but I think he also uses work to escape helping out with our children. This means that 7 days a week I am left with our 4 children under 6 alone.
My sister who lives an hour or two away has invtited me to stay (we dont have a car so I wll be going on the train and staying for 3 or 4 days) taking with me either my youngest (10 months old but breastfed so needs to come) or my two youngest so also my 2 year old.
AIBU to leave him for 4 days to look after the two oldest including school runs (if I leave on thursday and come back monday) when he is supposed to be working?
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to go away for 4 days leaving dh in charge (he is self employed)
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Fernie3 · 05/06/2011 08:35
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