Inspired by the thread the other week about having Very High Standards For Myself As Future Mother.....
Before I had DS there was a (long) list of things I thought I'd never do / didn't agree with / researched and wanted to stick to guidelines / had big judging pants on when I saw others doing....:
- Exclusively breastfeeding - had expressed milk at 4 weeks and a couple of formula feeds at 5 while I was in hosp, 1 a day from then onwards.
- Not weaning until 26 weeks....lasted til 21 THEN researched thoroughly and changed our minds
- Not using a dummy - lasted 3 weeks with DS sucking his thumb anyway....
- Not use jars / puches but homecook organic food..... OK so he has SOME homecooked food...
- Only using the extortionately priced cloth nappies we bought prior to his birth....About 50/50 spilt.
- Moving DS out of our room at 26 weeks ..... jury's still out on that one but thanks for ALL the advice :-)
There will be SO many more as he gets older.
Just wondered what 'standards / choices / rules' you all had prior to child's birth that went out of the window / changed / were found to be Slightly Unrealistic.
AIBU for thinking that the above things do not make me a terrible parent, and wishing I had known this BEFORE so I was less hard on myself when the first time came up with all these things and more flexible in my approach?