DD is 8. At the moment she's driving me up the bloody wall. For example, earlier I told her to go upstairs, get washed and into pajamas, then come back down. I impressed upon her that I wanted this done straight away and quickly. Ten minutes later I went to see why she hadn't come back down, and found her in the garden playing with the dog, not having been upstairs yet. Variations on this theme happen dozens of times a day.
My question is, aibu to expect that an 8 year old should do as she's told without arguing/throwing a massive strop, and without having to be told over and over again or constantly checked up up to make sure she hasn't become instantly distracted? Am I expecting too much of her?
I've read the similar thread about the 5 year old boy with interest, but I don't know how much of that is applicable to an 8 year old - I expect her to do what she's told (simple requests) without constant supervision and encouragement. Aibu?
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to expect DD to do what she's asked (told) to do, as soon as she's told to do it?
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ILoveYouToo · 12/05/2011 22:55
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