My dd is 3 (nearly 4) and goes to a nursery attached to the school she will be going to in September. Fab nursery (Outstanding).
At the nursery is a set of twins - boy/girl - and the boy is 'full on'. My dd likes the girl but cannot stand the boy. I have never known my dd to really not like anyone before, but having watched his behaviour over the last couple of weeks, I'm not surprised my dd doesn't like him.
I don't see how he behaves in nursery, but as we walk home after pick up, across the main school playground, he actively targets my dd and jumps on her and pulls her around by her clothes so roughly that he pulls her over.
I am not mistaken as I have watched him over a period. He often leaves the nursery first, as I am quite often late, and waits for her by the school gate. He then runs for her, grabs her and swings her around by her clothes. Or he will grab her, put his arm round her neck and get her in a head lock. My dd has begun to scream and cry before he actually gets to her, because she knows what will happen.
Now I know it is going to happen and grab my dd before he gets to her. The mum is totally ineffective, and after it happens she will say to him, "don't do that xxx" and physically drags her son of my dd.
The thing is, I don't know what happens at nursery - does this happen during the 2 1/2 hours she is there? Also, they will all be going to school in September and she will be mixing in the playground a lot with him.
I also have 2 older ds at the school who I could have a quiet word with to keep an eye out for my dd (their baby sister) and this boy - but my middle son (age 5) is likely to "explain" with his fists to the said boy - and then get into trouble himself.
Would I be unreasonable to speak to the nursery about it? I have a reputation at the school for speaking up for my children - which I know the school find very annoying!
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pingu2209 · 12/05/2011 09:27
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