A friend of a friend had a baby around the same time as me. I knew her a abit as she also dated my best friends flatmate and my partners friend. She was always a bit crazy attention seeking but on the whole I took her to be a nice girl.
We live in a small town, and so we go to the same groups and see the same people. Obviously we now spend quite a bit more time talking now. Everywhere time I see her she complains about her sons feeding (same problem I had really, breastfeeding and not enough weight gain), complains about sleeping, complains about teething, then she complains she doesnt have enough mummy friends and I have more, and that shes put on more weight than me, her FB statuses are always about the problems shes having, interspered with boasting comments that she then turns into negatives too, like 'Hes been rolling since he was 3 months. But its a NIGHTMARE getting him to sleep properly in his cot'. Its like she does it so that people say Oh no, what a terrible time you are having.
I hate it! Every mum has problems of some sort, we are all different. Its never easy for anybody, but its like she wants sympathy for the things that we all have to go through. Loads of us are harrassed and knackered. How can I get away from this woman?! I feel bad thinking that some of the women she is unloading all this stuff onto might be badly suffering in silence themselves . Moaning about being a mother make me feel so
Even our joint friends call her a drama queen. Before everyone starts she doesnt have PND, she was like this before Ive now been told! AIBU to start going to baby group in the next town?
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Complaints about motherhood doing my head in
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thefruitwhisperer · 05/05/2011 14:39
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