ok, my ds is 13 weeks old. When I was pg it was agreed that on my return to work he will spend Wednesday's at pils. Dh and I have just decided that I will take the full year of mat leave, but we have not told pils that yet, so they were still under the impression that I will go back in sept.
Dh was speaking to mil today and suggested that I start leaving ds with them on a weds so he has time to get used to it. WTF? To be fair, she did not know I had chAnged my mind about the length of mat leave, but sept is still 4 months away. Ds is still tiny, ebf, not weaned yet - no way am I ready to leave him for a day!
It is not as if ds is not used to them, he sees them at least one a week anyway. I gave a few issues with mil. I feel our relationship has changed since ds was born, and everything she does and says annoys me ATM. I think it stems from when she stayed at ours on the first night we brought ds home and she came into our bedroom and took ds off me when he was crying, but that was another thread....
So aibu to think mil just wants to get her Mits on ds again and this is far too early for her to be thinking about the transition of me going back to work?
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Moulesfrites · 27/04/2011 20:43
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