Calling all parents of six year old girls....
Another fantastic start to the morning in our household. I have two daughters aged just turned 6 and nearly 5. Today their grandmother has asked if she can take them on a day out to a scottish memorial day thing. Sounds very boring, but anyways. So my 4 year old has been quite unwell and I said i would see how she was this morning. She is feeling better so I said okay.
My 6 year old is not ill. She has been ill and been better about 3 days now. But she has acted like a stroppy baby all morning. Yelling at her sister for daring to wash her hands first, because SHE is first. Yelling at her sister for saying its a scottish day which it is, as I had said. Stropping and crying over putting her tights on.
Now this is the norm with my 6 year old but most often than not, she still gets to go out and do things despite behaving badly. I want to put my foot down now. I watched my 4 year old, whom is still ill but feeling a bit better, get washed, dressed and put her own tights on without the slightest murmer. Now my argument with husband is...what sort of incentive is it for my 4 year old to carry on with her good behaviour, when her older sister behaves badly and gets to go regardless? And surely 6 year old daughter behaves like that because she knows she has been allowed to go in the past anyway?
Husband says to let her go, that she has been told off and thats that. Plus he says he doesnt want her ruining another weekend which sounds really harsh I know, but to some degree its true. She seems to be in a really difficult phase of strops, sulks and being mean to her siblings just now. I say no, that its our job to teach her how to behave and i wont see her rewarded for bad behaviour anymore. What would you do?
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makingdo1 · 16/04/2011 08:58
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