I know IABU and ungrateful and hormonal!
Ex has sent a blank Mother's Day card addressed to DD (nearly 2) and me, with a note on the front addressed to DD asking her to decorate the card with stickers and write it, without Mummy seeing - yeah, cos that's going to happen. DD will stick the stickers, and I would have to write it, and of course I would know about it!
Don't get me wrong its very kind that he has bought and sent a card (albeit blank, and he works in a card shop so gets a discount and was hardly going to 'forget' it was Mother's Day). The thing is I don't want ANYTHING from him (apart from support for his DD as I can't provide enough for her without that) - it makes me feel really uncomfortable and sad, and it feels really innapropriate. I would never go into a shop, buy a card to myself and write it anyway!
I always get something for my Mum for Mother's Day, but as far as DD is concerned it doesn't mean much for me - not until she is old enough to want to make/give something herself because she wants to - that will mean something - and I'd rather wait until then! Ex was much more of the Hallmark frame of mind where cards had to be sent for every national celebration/achievement etc.
I've already planned to do an activity with DD on Mother's Day, we're doing 2 'Mother and Daughter' handprint pictures with finger paints (one for my Mum and one for me), and generally getting messy painting on the kitchen floor. I think I'm just gonna put the unwritten card on a shelf for when she is older.
Deploy and I shall devour them all in a comfort-eating way.......
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to not want to write my own Mother's Day card
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LifeIsButtercream · 01/04/2011 09:26
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