i started making birthday cakes as a bit of a hobby. i have made them for my own kids( peppa adn hello kitty) as well as my dd2's christening cake and grans 90th birthday cake. my MIL asked me to do my neices last year and i did a patrick from sponge bob. these take alot of time, effort and money. it is coming uo to my neices birthday again and mil has aked me if i was going to do a cake again. i told her that i had not planned to. she has just called to tell me that my neice is expecting one and i told her that i will not have time. she then called back to inform me that my neice is gutted i am not doing a cake so i now feel like a cow. the reasons that i am not doing the cake apart from the general expense and time is that my SIL is a lazy cow and would not give my dd's the steam off her piss. she is always just expecting every one else to do things for her ut is never greatful. when my dd2 was born she didnt even get us a card and the same when she was christened. she did tell me that she had ordered a gift online but it had not arrived. it never materialised. it is not the lack of gifts that bother me but the lack of effort on her part when she expects every one to do things for her. why cant my SIL amke her own cake or just buy one from the shop like every one. MIL has now said that she will buy a cake.
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