AIBU to feel hurt and angry and confused. I can't find a way to deal with this passive/aggression without being aggresive myself or crying- which is pretty passive in itself.
This year for the first time ever I am struggling with my weight. I am thirteen stone and almost six feet tall. I hate that I have gtten so big but I have comfort eaten during this year which is the hardest I have ever had.
My Dad has dementia and lives 70 miles away- Mum needs all my support. I have a back tax to pay of £22k and a further £14k due to an employers error on my tax code (I am appealinga aginst it but boy its a strain)
I have only just returned to a part time job at a third of what I used to earn, after a car accident that nearly killed me and have used up all my savings. I just reached 51 (!) and DH is 41. We had to drop out of adopting after a 7 year battle because our finances and my health are just not i[ to it now- he is okay about it but I am devastated-
He started to get fit- and has lost two stone and runs every day and bores for GB on calorie content of everything. I know I need to get slimmer and fitter but although he says he is supporting me- he is criticising me all the time. Today I was dragged out for a seven mile walk and told I was 'doing well' and 'doing really well' when I only had 1 sugar in my coffee!
But IF i CHALLENGE Him he gets a sulky toddler face and says 'I am only trying to help you'! I just don't know what to do. I feel I am drowning in a sea of debt- which the comp from the accident will pay eventually but that is at least a year away-worried sick about parents, hate that I have lost so much status and money at work and the part time contract finishes on 13th April anyway..
I can't sleep, concentrate and feel like I am wired up inside.
I will use any advice or flames.
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Kitsichick · 19/03/2011 17:50
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