Here goes - any and all opinions welcome.
To cut a long story short, I am now a single parent with no family support where I live now. I desparately want to move back to the north-west where I have family. (It's also a nicer area, better schools etc).
The problem is work. This isn't really the time to be hunting round for a new job and although I have been keeping my eye open there is not much in my profession around.
This morning, I came up with a plan which would be to stay in my current job in the Midlands and see if my employer (large employer, quasi public sector) would allow me to work three long days and do my hours that way. That would mean I could travel down say, Sunday night or early Monday morning, work Mon Tue Wed and travel home Wednesday night. That bit isn't all that much fun but would give me four free days (apart from a bit of e-mail catch-up) to spend with my mum and the children. The travelling is about two and a half hours each way, so not doable on a daily basis. What a hotel would cost is basically the same as my morning childcare now, or maybe I could stay with friends sometimes.
Has anyone ever worked with an arrangement like this? Was it okay? Your thoughts on what this might be like in practice would be more than welcome. I've not spoken to anyone (either my mum or my employer) about this yet.
This might not be forever, but it would buy me space to sort out a decent house for me and the children, move before the new school year and then take time to find another job that's actually right for me.
Thanks all!
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OhWesternWind · 17/03/2011 08:22
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