Hi have a fb friend who is close to a family member of mine, She decided to give up smoking 2 weeks ago on the first anniversary of one of my family members dh, supposidly in memory of him.
He did die of Cancer but it wasn't smoking related although he did smoke,
I think she has done well and hope she keeps it up but I am getting so fed up of the constant fb statuses putting smokers down, she keeps refering to past family member and that she is doing it for him, She says if we had any feeling for him then we would give up now. every day is like a countdown on how fabulous she is,
Today she also stated how she had gone into every cancer related charity shop and spent what would have been her ciggie money. She had loads of her friends saying well done and bigging her up.
I wonder if she felt so strongly about it then why didn't she give up when he died,
Why not do it for herself and why the need for constant praise.
By the way I am not a smoker and never have been,
I have avoided commenting on her statuses as I know I would say say something I will regret.
I have blocked her from my wall as it winds me up so much but both my kids and my mum have her on theirs and tell/show me as it upsets them too.
My mum is a smoker and feels terrible when she see's this, We cannot say anything to close family member as she is going through enough and this person is her best friend.
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To think well done for not smoking for 2 weeks but please don't lecture everyone else,
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candyking · 12/03/2011 17:25
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