Ok so weve had three dc in a short space of time and there has been a drought in the affection/sex department.
I am mostly to blame for this as i just completely lost interest and had no libido nor did i even want to be touched.
I found it hard to deal with at times and hard to understand, but put it down to hormones, tiredness, Bfeeding etc etc
It has come up occasionally over the last few years during discussions/arguments i explained my feelings the best i could and although dh has to found it confusing and hard came to accept things had changed (i had a previously high sex drive and was affectionate) I have to add he has never put me under pressure or anything but it has been hard as i too have found it difficult to understand why my libido dissapeared.
My dc3 is 11mth old and my periods retuened three months ago and i have started to begin to feel back to myself, affectionate and libido has definately returned.
Prob is me and dh have ahem a few times but only when ive instigated and i mean alot of instigation, i have explained to dh that after looking into thing realised bf may have played a big part in my libido and i now am started to feel 'normal' again...long converation so wont go on but you get the picture i hope!?
Obviously i understand dh cant just switch it back on but i find myself yurning for him to intigate sex or touch me but he doesnt or if he does he says something like, do you want a cuddle' It makes me feel upset i just want him to really want me and just go for it not ask me
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threecurrantbuns · 09/02/2011 15:13
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