and the date you had invited them to come over was now approaching?
History - old friend of many years, very fond of her but she has become flaky the last few years - constantly cancels, can hardly ever make dates suggested, doesn't call when she says she will/reply to emails very much.
She lives a long distance away from us, and it's difficult for us to go to them as they have animals which DH and one DC are allergic to, and as it is a long drive you don't want to make it just a quick visit. Nevertheless the last time we did see them, we went there I think.
Was trying to arrange to see her and three other old friends at the start of the year. She was the one who couldn't make all the dates the others could . . . she suggested a date the others couldn't make and I said, well why not come to ME that day, as the others can't make that day. I had no reply to that email and had frankly forgotten all about it until I realised that it's this weekend.
What if she contacts me out of the blue and says "are you still OK for us to come to you?"
What if she doesn't? Should I chase her or be offended?
BTW she is a really nice person and there definitely isn't any snubbing going on here. It's just, well, how it is...
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BalloonSlayer · 08/02/2011 18:16
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