DH and I are attending a wedding at the start of April.
The wedding invite basically that they would prefer no children, but to let the couple know if this would preclude us attending.
DD will be 11mo at the time (9 if you take into account that she was prem). She is BF so will probably still be reliant on me.
The wedding is down beside DHs sister, and the other end of the country to where we live.
DH phoned his sister to say we were coming to the wedding and she immediately offered to come to the venue and take care of DD, so I could just nip out and feed her or whatever as necessary. On this basis we accepted the invitation, booked flights and hotel etc.
She has now told us that something else has come up so she might be able to take care of DD from about 7-8pm but no earlier.
I think that's the whole story. I'm just annoyed now as either we lose money on flights and miss out on the wedding, ask the couple if we can bring DD (which I'd prefer not to do as I think it's their right to not want her there). Or it's one of DHs friends so I could lurk around with DD and let him attend the wedding, nipping out to see us from time to time...
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Ieattoomuchcake · 08/02/2011 16:54
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