Ok, I now this probably isnt the place for this kind of question but I really need some help ASAP as I need to speak to my sister about this in the next couple of days if not tonight.
I found out I was pregnant a week before my sister called to tell me she was getting married. I was waiting a few weeks till I got past the two months mark before telling friends and family so she did not know. I was exstatic when she told me about her news as she has been with her partner for almost 15 years and they have a wonderful family together. As soon as she told me I knew that I did not want my news in some way, to overshadow her big announcement; so I kept quiet about it. My partner and I had also decided to get engaged over the new year period and decided to keep that a secret till after I graduate from uni this summer and we moved in together. All in all, a lot of surprises!
Well the big problem is this, her wedding is going to be around easter or maybe a little later, but definitely in the next few months. I am now worried that I need to tell her as I am going to be showing at around 4 and a half months by then. Also, she needs my dress measurements ASAP to order my outfit for the big day and I don't know how I am going to give her those.
I am considering giving her much larger measurements and then getting it altered to fit closer to the date. I'm just so worried about her feeling like I am overshadowing her big day in some way. I love her to bits and want her special day to be all about her.
Sorry for the long story, just need somewhere to get some advice or input on this. I am a regular contributer, just changed my name temporarily. Thanks again!
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usualuser · 08/02/2011 15:13
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