Eek, first ever post so please be gentle!
My DS is now 5 months old. He sleeps through the night and has done since he was about 12 weeks. People constantly comment on how happy and healthy he seems.
However, I still get nagged and whinged at by my MIL and my parents that he should be in a strict routine, he should be weaning by now, I shouldn't let him sleep for so long at night, he should sleep in our room etc etc.
He's never been in a strict routine, we have a loose time every day for feeds and naps but I can't bring myself to force him to eat/sleep when he obviously doesn't want or need to. And he sleeps in his own room and has done from 4 months because my DPs snoring often disturbed him, but his own room is literally about 3 feet from ours and obviously all doors are left open and we have a monitor.
MIL also tells me I'm not holding him/feeding him/playing with him correctly when she's only even bothered to see him about 4 times since he was born. (She lives 10 minutes away and cancels arrangements to see him at least once a week, no exaggeration, then moans at us that she misses him)
So AIBU to ignore them and just carry on with what I'm doing because he seems happy to me?
Sorry for the long post, I'm a first time mum and I do welcome their advice, I just resent being told everything I'm doing is wrong.
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AIBU?
To be annoyed at family and now ignoring them?
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SquishyBumsMum · 01/02/2011 14:03
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