My son is 13 months old and until he turned one he was eating fine. I'd give him a savoury dish then a pudding, like yoghurt, custard or rice pudding. Now he is refusing most of the savoury food I cook and fills up on fruit, yoghurt bread with cream cheese etc. I try not to give him loads of sweet stuff and expand what he will eat, so he will eat sweetcorn or a bit of brocolli but the problem is that the food he will eat changes from one day to the next. eg he'll have mashed sweet potato one day and then two days later completely refuse it, same with pasta and sauce, chopped up ham etc. I don't want him to get into bad habits so he only accepts sweet tasting food, but I'm also starting to feel like a complete mug, because I'll prepare him stuff and he will clamp his mouth shut and refuse to even try it.
It's not easy to find the time to cook because my husband doesn't get home till 6.30 or 7, sometimes later and I find it impossible to cook whilst caring for my son because he's so inquisitive and gets bored sitting in his highchair, but if I let him roam around he is pulling everything out of the cupboards and getting into scrapes and I can't get anything done. My husband works 6 days a week and Sundays are our only family day so I don't want to spend all day cooking and we often have other stuff to do anyway. I basically end up cooking after my son has gone to bed (he also doesn't have reliable naps and has only just started sleeping through the night, getting up anytime between 5.00 and 7.00am)and it's an effort which has no reward because he just won't eat stuff. My friends' babies shove handfulls of homemade lasagne in their mouths and my son just shakes his head at it. I know you shouldn't compare your kids to other peoples but why is mine the one who keeps me awake every night for a year, then starts sleeping but stops eating? According to the health visitor I can either carry on as I am or stop letting him have the yoghurt/rice pudding etc. If I don't let him have the sweet stuff I know he'll start waking in the night again. She says just give him water but that means hours of screaming and I can't face it because I've fought for a year to get him to sleep through.
I'm fed up and don't know what to do. Should I just give in to him or is that creating a rod for my own back later on? It seems to me like I've just got a choice of different rods!
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joannita · 01/02/2011 10:48
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