Is best avoided? If this is the case then what are women like my older friend supposed to do if they want a relationship and get married etc?
My friend has found that most men she's dated want sex rather than commitment especially through internet dating. A few have never had a long term relationship or been married etc, alarm bells would be ringing for me if they were 40 plus. This is the age group she's met recently (internet dating). She's also said that usually men of her age want a much younger woman.
My heart is breaking for her as she has told me she's resigned herself to the fact she'll now never have children - she's 41, all her life she imagined she'd have them when she met the right person. Now, due to her age, she thinks this is unlikely to happen.
She also has quite a serious health issue, but this wouldn't physically prevent her having children. It might put some men off though, there's a chance she could become seriously ill in the future.
I don't know what to say to her? She wrote me a very sad email yesterday. She's wonderful, a really lovely person and deserves happiness in her life.
I seem to hear this more and more, and from my younger friends too, that men are not interested in settling down until much later (if at all). You hear so much in the press about women delaying having children until it is too late but less about the men who don't want to commit in the first place.
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