Mil used to look after dd1 every month or so from around 4 months old which I now think was waay to soon! She would try to feed dd really age innapropriate food, ie, chunks of pineapple, chocolate mousse, pasta and whole rusks (not mushed with milk) at 5 months. (We started weaning at 5 months but only purees) She also once fed her a jar of baby food at about 16 weeks without my consent. I was livid. She apparantly "waited" until her dc were 1 week before giving them baby rice in their bottle. She would give dd whole grapes and fil would play and tip her upside down with them in her mouth. Now they like to try and feed her shitloads of sweets and lollies and chocolate every visit. Sometimes I would be there and tell her not to, sometimes she would do it when babysitting and tell me after.
Am I being precious with food? Its not the same as blw, surely you start off with soft mushy things after 6 months and build from there?! She and my fil NEVER listen to me and may do as I ask the next time we see them, but after a couple of visits pretty much carry on with anything I ask them not to do. Fil also has been banned from giving dd cola (she is 2) and spreading apple sauce all over her dinner then letting her eat it out of the jar. I am currently ebf dd2 as long as possible so they cant babysit/ feed her shit . But what do I do after that? I am not very assertive. (utter wimp!)
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violetmoon · 06/01/2011 21:03
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