I have told him (given the long and complex history/baggage) that it would be better if he didn't invite them and said nothing and kept shtum.
Dh, bless him, has a very chequered history of not anticipating just how awful his parents are when it comes to family/group outings- he has in the past invited them only for it to be carnage afterwards. If his parents don?t get their every whim catered to- or if his parents aren?t able to then invite about 20 of their own friends and family then it is a long and drawn out agony. It really is all about them, they are terribly attention seeking and FIL especially will say very nasty things to get an argument going- he is a scholar don?t you know and loves a good debate
They are not religious in any way- which is fine as half the guests coming aren?t either but they are at least respectful of our wishes. I expect FIL to start his usual rant about how the jews are taking over the world (oh yes)
I am rambling. I know my dh very well and am convinced that he?s not saying anything to me now and will do a spectacular u turn a day or two before the christening and tell me they are coming.
Dh has even suggested that he tell his parents we are having the do and that they aren?t invited because he know s they aren?t church goers or interested in these occasions.
This is a big deal to me and I have my beloved family coming over from abroad I?d be so upset if they tainted it.
Is there another way that I?m not seeing?
AIBU?
To not invite my dh's toxic parents to our christening?
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