I know someone who I used to live on the same street as when I still lived with my mother. She had three children who were lovely and I saw all of them growing up from when I was only a child myself. I was about 8 years old when the first was born.
I don't really see her now but she sends a Christmas card every year. She would usually have a photgraph of the children made into the card which was lovely as I could see them changing every year.
Now they're all grown up, they are aged 22, 20 and 18. But... their mum still sends out these photo christmas cards of them. She always chooses a beach holiday photo and they are half naked in the photos. The boy wearing a tiny pair of hot pant type trunks and the girls teeny tiny string bikinis. I honestly feel ashamed to say it but I now put the cards away and never display them.
Please tell me, if I'm unduly harsh but I just take the view that they're far too old for that. Even then it should be something more appropraite than adults in bikinis / trunks on a card. At least have some clothes on in the photo. What does a beach holiday photo taken in the summer have to do with christmas?
I might be being harsh as christmas is hard when your TTC with PCOS and you're acutely aware you have no kiddies to spend it with
What do you think?
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Photo Christmas cards should just be for children?
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A1980 · 18/12/2010 22:04
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