Or is my MIL BU?
First of all I apologise that this is ANOTHER MIL thread. And I want to prefix this with saying that while I am overweight, I am not of elephant porportions. I am a about a size 20(may sound huge to some people but I don't look THAT bad) and am 5'8" so I don't look completely like a tellytubby. I have a very healthy diet, its just that I eat too much of it!
My issue lies, as I said, with my MIL. She is a very overbearing woman with strong opinions and a tendancy to tell people what to do, how to do it etc. This is why I ask this as I feel my judgement may be clouded.
On several occasions she has made comments about my weight - like all the rest of her comments they are not straight out insults, more like little digs. One evening we were eating chinese (which is a treat in this house) and she walked in. First words out of her mouth "Its not a bit wonder you're fat". When I was pregnant she said "XXX asked me were you starting to show and I said I didn't know because you are big anyway". I gave her an almost new coat that I didn't want. She said "You must have been an awful lot smaller when you bought this" (it didn't button on her either). And the most recent she said to my DD when we visited the other day "Me and your mother are going on a diet after Christmas". (First I heard of it). There is a lot more than that but I can't think of it at the moment.
Now she is about 16 stone and can't really afford to comment on my appearance. As I said she makes these comments in a way that if I answered back it would make me look petty and foolish. AIB too sensitive? I laugh them off but it is getting to the stage that I am starting to bite my tongue.
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femalevictormeldrew · 16/12/2010 10:53
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