I had my second beautiful daughter 8 weeks ago. My BIL and SIL also have a daughter. My MIL has two sons and has made no secret of wanting grandsons in preference to grand-daughters. E.g when she heard my niece was girl she was openly disappointed. When we found out DD1 was a girl, her first reaction was "I want one of you to give me a girl". When DD2 was just born (we didn't find out the sex beforehand) her first reaction over phone was not to say congratulations, or to ask if mother and baby doing OK, or even to ask if DH was OK, but to shout to her partner "its another girl" with palpable disappointment in her voice. Then at Christmas party last Sunday I overheard her saying in disappointed voice to other grandparents discussing their offspring "I only have three grand-daughters". The weird thing is that she seems to love spending time with our DD1 - she just moved house to be closer to us presumably so she could see them more. Now BIL and SIL have just found out they are expecting a little boy (which is brilliant news - all power to them - can't wait to meet the little chap) but I feel furious with MIL that she keeps talking about my fantastic girls as if they are second rate. And I don't want them to spend time with her if she thinks they are second rate. Is this ridiculous? Could it be PND to feel so very angry about it? Help please!
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FatherChristmasatemyhamster · 14/12/2010 12:25
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