I have promised the dc that we will get our tree tomorrow, they are very excited.
Dh wants me to wait until Wednesday- he knows I promised them but thinks they will forget all about it.
He is worried that his mum (who is visiting and sleeping over on Tuesday night) will see it as "a threat".
She is muslim, as is he. I am not. Mostly we follow both families traditions and celebrations.
Mil is always putting dh under pressure to be more devout, and he thinks a tree will give her something else to be upset sbout.
Part of me thinks "oh bugger off, your mum is not going to be threatened by a bloody tree, and I'll bring my children up with whichever traditions we choose".
A (smaller) part of me thinks "aah, it's nice he wants to make his mum happy".
Thoughts?
She is threatened when the dc mention church events I sometimes take them to, and I know it must be hard for her to see them just on the fringes of her religion, but I feel his smoothing things over is a cover for HIM not wanting them. Aargh.
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KeithTalent · 10/12/2010 23:03
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