My best friend is getting married next summer and I'm one of her bridesmaids. She's currently trying to organise her hen weekend. She's found a website that do hen weekend packages, and wants us to do an inflatable activity weekend.
Three of the locations are in the UK and one is in Sweden. One of the girls suggested that flying to Sweden would be quicker than travelling to one of the UK locations, and now they are getting excited about Sweden. The trouble is what was going to be a relatively affordable weekend staying in a travelodge with an activity and drinks is now starting to sound quite expensive with flights and a hotel. Tbh I'm not sure my friend actually wants to go abroad, but I think she's just happy to go along with what everyone else decides.
DH and I are buying a new house which needs a lot of work, so financially things will probably be tight for the next year. It's not that I don't want to go on her hen weekend, but I really can't afford to go to Sweden for the weekend, and am a little annoyed as me and DH never get to go away together because we can't afford it!
Also we are currently ttc, so at the time of the hen weekend I could be anything up to 6 months pregnant anyway, and obviously don't want to spend a fortune on one weekend if I may not even be able to join in with the activities and drinking.
I don't want to appear childish and want to go as she is my best friend and don't want to let her down. I don't want to suggest doing something else as really it's her last weekend of freedom and nothing to do with me. If I didn't go would she understand or hate me for it?
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chocolatebuttontheif · 10/12/2010 13:19
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