My dd who is a teenager (i.e. not a young child) got 2 pet rabbits at Easter.
She asked for them for over 2.5 years, so not a flash in the pan decision.
The whole deal before she got them was that she had to look after them, and financially they were her responsibility. Hence why we waited so long as we wanted her to be an age that she could take on the responsibility.
However, since she's had the rabbits, the cost for food, treats, innoculations, holiday cover has fallen on us.
Worse than that numerous times her rabbits have escaped, they have a large run, and large hutch, but she's been very careless with the latches. We've retrieved the rabbits, she's half heaterdly helped, the neighbours have kindly retrieved her rabbits.
We've told her off, numerous times, and have said they will get lost, be eaten by cats/foxes, weather exposure etc.
Anyway, the rabbits got out last Wednesday as she hadn't secured their hutch properly. I advised her when she came home on Wednesday, that they weren't there, and that I had tried to catch them, but was unable to. She said 'oh' looked out the back door and that was her amount of effort. She then went out for the evening, my dh and I tried to find the rabbits but couldn't find them. She asked Thursday and Friday whether we had seen them, I had seen one on the Thursday run through our garden, but couldn't catch it.
(BTW we are out at work all day - and she is at home technically more hours than we are if she didn't choose to go out with friends in the evening).
She didn't look Thurs/Fri for them, dh and I ddid but no success.
Saturday afternoon with no concern from her, I suggested she did a leaflet drop to see if any neighbours had seen the rabbits. Houses behind ours said they had seen them on the Thursday but not since.
Sunday dh and I looked for them, dd did not.
DD came home from school didn't look for them, went out at 7pm - still not going outside, came home at 9.30pm, and asked if I thought the rabbits would come back.
I said I doubted it now due to a) the cold, b) the number of cats around and c) the foxes.
She then burst into tears, and said she realy missed them. I said it is sad, but that I have absolutely no sympathy to her, and I just hope the rabbits didn't suffer, she thinks I'm being a terrible mother. Maybe I am but I can't get the sympathy for her - would you have sympathy for your child in this situation?
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Regarding pet rabbits - I feel I maybe being harsh but am I?
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bigpurple · 22/11/2010 22:21
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