So basically I am pretty on edge DD is four months and has decided that sleep is no longer for her. I am up and down like a yo-yo all night. DH does one feed at 10, but always says things like, "don't you think that I'm awake every minuet you're awake?" Answer - NO! He also doesn't do the nights at the weekends and when I do say to him, your turn, he gets grumpy and then just shoves her dummy in (after stopping off to go to the loo first) and then comes back to bed, so I end up getting up to settle her anyway.
This morning I got up and came into the kichen and he said "ooo, Mummy's grumpy this morning" - I wasn't impressed. When he asked me what was wrong, I explained that I was tired and he told me what I needed to do was go to bed earlier. At which point I snapped and shouted and we had a big row. I explained if I go to bed earlier then I have no time at all to myself or time to get anything done! I didn't want advice like that I just wanted some help, like "you look shattered I'll do tonight!" And the thing is that he doesn't even have to work long hours! He leaves at 9 and can be home between 3-5.30 - my day is much longer!
Sorry rant over!!
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Ghostie · 11/11/2010 21:01
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