To want to cut out a in law from my and DS's life

[MrsSheen]

I have had enough of my sil's violent and threatening behaviour not to mention the serious lies she has told.

AIBU to not want me or DS to have anything to do with her again.
DH agrees with me on this and hasn't really had anything to do with her for years btw

[MrsSheen]

bumpy

[VinegarTits]

is she 16 with ADHD?

[ShirleyKnot]

Your DH hasn't had anything to do with her for years and yet you still do?

[flamingpants]

Is this your brother's wife and why your DH doesn't have anything to do with her?
I'd need more info really to give an opinion, but if you are concerned for your DS and DH agrees I don't see what is stopping you.

[MrsSheen]

what is that bisciut for??

He is civil for the sake of his mum, but there is no love lost between them.

No she is 17 and does not have adhd vinegar?

[MrsSheen]

not its my DH's sister.

[VinegarTits]

hahaha have another

[ShirleyKnot]

17 eh?

[MrsSheen]

I don't understand your hostility ?

[ShirleyKnot]

Yeah, sorry about that, I'm in a bitch of a mood today. V similar thread yesterday.

Right, if your husband doesn't have anything to do with his sister why do you?

[VinegarTits]

if you think thats hostile you aint seen nothing

i am annoyed that you think we are all as dumb as you

[VinegarTits]

sorry yes, its very rude of me to assume you are the same poster as yesterday

do carry on

[ShirleyKnot]

STOP BEING HORRIBLE TO PEOPLE WITH SIMILAR PROBLEMS AS OTHER PEOPLE.

[MrsSheen]

im sorry you feel like this vinegar, but its a feel country I suppose.

Ah OK I see Shirley I didn't no see that thread.

I don't know I suppose I feel slightly harsh that that I am stopping her seeing DS, but I don't see any other option and I thought that maybe SIL has a right to see her nephew.

I don't know

[MrsSheen]

free country I mean

[VinegarTits]

Sorry, i am not horrible really

OP tell us more?

[ShirleyKnot]

There are no rights set in law for sisters to see their nieces/nephews.

[VinegarTits]

ffs i mean



What has she done to make you want to cut her out of your life?

[Witchcat]

I dont talk to my Brother but his Wife is now pg and wants to send my son a xmas gift and for them to know each other.

Personal i dont like my brother and i dont need his family in my life so i dont want my son to have the gift.

If someone is not nice then why spend your time and energy on that person when you can spend it on your own family?

I would just not bother with her any more and say you are busy.

[ANTagony]

Does she live at home with the PIL's? Will this create an atmosphere with them and potentially further family repercussions?

[Witchcat]

Agree with Antagony there will be fall out but only you can decide if its worth it.

[ShirleyKnot]

VT - hahahahaha.

I am going to so feel a cope of you now.

BEND OVER

[MrsSheen]

No I didn't think there was. Its just until recently DS has always had very close contact with all this uncles and aunty's and even if i do "cut" contact with SIL, I have nothing against the others and in fact we are very close so DH'S oldest younger brother.

I don't really no what more to tell really.

She Is just very difficult.
Never been violent towards me as yet but is very violent towards parents and siblings.
Her foul language is disgusting, even around DS and I am sick of telling her to stop using it around DS, but it is like talking to a wall.

I no she is still only young but she just isn't a very nice person.

[MrsSheen]

ANTagony yes she does and that is my only worry, i am quite close to my MIL and love her to bits.

[VinegarTits]

if she is violent towards family members then maybe she has some underlying behavioural disorder, like ADHD?