I am a SAHM. I have always sorted out and taken DS to various appointments over the last 2.9 years. No problem with that, that is my job.
When DS was a baby, it looked like he may have a slight squint so he has been having regular checks on his eyes. It now looks as though the sight in his left eye isn't quite as good as the right and they want to do a proper eye test.
I took DS a couple of weeks ago (the appointment where they told me he needed a proper eye test). I am 6 months pregnant, I have M.E. and I am dealing with an active toddler. We were very late going in as they were behind and DS was very bored and kept trying to escape from the waiting room. I was constantly dragging him back and trying to keep him calm and quiet. It was exhausting!
This next appointment is going to be an hour long. I will be 7 months pregnant. I am also very squeamish about eyes and get quite apprehensive about just going to the eye infirmary.
I have changed the appointment to a day that DH has off work. I phoned him and said that is what I have done and would he mind taking DS. It was fine then DH said something about me being there as well and I said "well I thought you could take him" and explained my above reasons. DH then said "oh so you want to just dump it on me then."
I said maybe I could come too then. Then after when I was thinking about it, I was getting really annoyed. It doesn't take both of us. I won't actually be doing anything other than sitting there with them, DH will be doing the running around. I have always dealt with all the appointments, clinics etc as I am a SAHM so that is fine but the comment about me "dumping" this on DH really wound me up tbh.
Am I being completely unreasonable about this?
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CrazyPlateLady · 03/11/2010 18:33
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