BIL is getting himself Baptised in about 6 months he has asked me and dp and dc to attend. The problem is MIL has been abusive and eventually physically violent towards me in th epast in front of my children and when I retaliated in self defence attempted to get me arrested.
Since that incident we have not spoken to MIL or SIL, BIL has continued to speak with both sides and remainded neutral he says he understands our point of view but he does not want to take sides because SIL will stop him having contact with his nephew. He also seems to be trying to get the family back together.
He has said that him being baptised is very important to him and he would really like it if we were there but I don't want to go and risk arguing with MIL and SIL and certainly not in front of my dc, but I don't want to let BIL down. So me and DP are thinking that we wont go, my mother suggested going to the ceremony and then returning home but I don't want to I know it will seem like me and DP don't care and may lose dps only remaining family member but I just can't face this.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To tell BIL no!
5 replies
FlameGrilledMama · 03/11/2010 13:09
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.