Oh no! I hear you cry, not another christmas thread.. sorry!
Sorry if this is a bit long winded and boring!
My husband and I alternate between visiting his parents and mine each year.
We have had a couple at our home with boths sets of parents.
However, my parents have a long standing (20 years plus) arrangement with close family friends that they alternate between having christmas at each others houses (they invite myself, husband and PIL). Otherwise I would suggest having Christmas at our house this year.
Last year we went to my BIL's with my PIL, this year we are going to my parents.
My parents have invited PIL, they have refused the offer (as they always do)
My BIL has phoned me and insinuated that I should stay with the PIL as they said will be on their own as he has other plans.
Is it unreasonable to be annoyed with my PIL for trying on the guilt trip when they have had an invite to come with us. They have not returned the invitation to my parents once.
I am also a bit annoyed at BIL that he doesn't appreciate that it is not my fault that his parents are anti-social and that looking after his parents is not our sole responsibility.
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GiselleS · 02/11/2010 19:43
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