so i no the answer to this anyway but just needed a rant and wanted to no what other people do when they/there dp/h works.
Basically its like living with a teenager (he is 30!!!)
So evening's in our place go something like this...
i return home with ds3 & dd1...i am 5 month pregnant. I have dinner to cook washing to put on/put away/iron etc..., kids to bath, read to and put to bed. All the tidying up to do....currently am doing all his tax return...and planning work in our house...etc
I ask him if he could take dc upstairs and start bath etc...he ignors...hypes them up..rolling about with them on floor which almost always ends in tears while i continue to ask him to take them up I start to get pissed off...he then yells because im 'moody'
Dc end up winding eachother up in bath (because he has hyped them up when they are tired) so cry and he gets annoyed and storms off telling me to sort them out...causing them both to start howling!!
Ds is calling him asking to be put in bed and books...he finally comes back up and mones saying its too hard when we are all here!!! FFS where else are we gonna go!!!
so after kids asleep i continue to tidy up all the books him and my ds have got out and left on floor, the draws he has left open, towels and clothes he has left all over the floor...to go down stairs to start dinner, tidying etc etc etc while he sits watching tv... i finally get to sit down around 10pm!!! ARGH...im exhusted...his reponse is...'i told you not to get pregnant again!!!'
...ahhh...sorry for long post...if i keep it to my self tho i will end up shouting at him and i'll come off worse in the end!!
What do other people'DP/Dh do around the house and with the kids if they work full time?? I no i dont work but he just thinks i chill with mates and drink coffee in the day or something like that and im so worn out
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ynoopsssim · 15/10/2010 19:34
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