I am so pissed off, quite frankly...
There's a bit of a back story, but...
Dh picked up his children today. DSS is 13. He wets the bed at night. Always has done, he might have one or two dry nights a month if lucky.
At home he does not wear pull ups any more. He does for scout trips etc. DH and I have sought advice on this and prefer not to make him wear pull ups here. However, DH has collected his children today and the ex wife has packed pull ups for DSS. Apparently she has spoken to the school nurse who has said he will just grow out of it and not to do anything about it, just put him in pull ups when he is away from home. DH pointed out that this goes against specialist advice she/we/they have been given, but his ex is having none of it.
I feel so sorry for DSS now. His mother does nothing at all to help this issue and as far as we know has stopped seeing the specialist. I will discuss with DSS, but if he doesn't want to wear the pull ups, I plan not to make him. Plus, I consider the fact she has done nothing about this a welfare issue. Am I being over the top?
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To Not Want To Put DSS, Aged 13, In Nappies When He Comes To Stay?
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midori1999 · 09/08/2010 19:57
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