adivice please?
Right,very mild background his'
friends at the age of 11
with abusive partner from age 16(2000)...wouldnt let me see BF....speperated with him(2004), she was amazing....
got with now hubby in 2007
getting on fine with BF....went into to early labour with DD2 in august 2008, had a 3lb very sick baby.... BF was first person i called(parents live abroad) she didnt answer. her dad did, told him had LO but she was sick, he said BF had been in car acciedent but was ok, would call me when re settled.
Obviously time taken up by new LO and other children, I knew BF was ok from what dad had said and intendended to call when i/we got out of hospital
sub's she wasnt ok, she was very ill, dad lied to me, i was busdy looking after really sick child, we fell out. big time....well she fell out, wouldnt talk to me,
I took offencence, as did she, i had really sick premmi, she was really sick, crossed wires....
months later I gave in and sent her an email. explaining what happened. BF acepted this(no ap' though) and all was good.
In jan 2010 decieded to get married with OH and asked her to be maid of honour.
She has been amazing. my parents live in australia, no one around....totally amazing...through hell!!
Wedding was beautiful....then, week after i get this....
Got this email tonight
Miss Davies 25 July at 21:02
dad did buy a nice leather album to give you with photos in but as u didnt look at him once when he was takin a photo there isnt much point in you having any of them! we thought the idea of dad going was to get two sets of decent photos, you know i dont hold back on anything so im just letting u know im pissed!!!!!!!!!! really pissed but im not fallin out with u just wanted u to know! natalie tried to push dad out the way on every opportunity.
What am i sposed to make of this?
I darent show you all my reply as im in a state and very fragile....
i've bi pololar(as BF knows) and am very sensitive, not stopped crying all night....seriously sobbing because i feel ive hurt her family, but why the hell should i?
Help?!
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AIBU?
AIBU to think my suposed best mate is a total bitch?
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zoelikesjam · 26/07/2010 00:34
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