Due on Monday, and I know I am a hormonal nightmare at the moment. Had a proper go at DP tonight as I asked him for a cuddle and he wouldn't give me one. I can't remember the last time he cuddled me, I always ask and it never happens, he just doesn't want to touch me.
We haven't had sex since January because he has been too freaked out about hurting the baby. Which I respect if that's how he feels even though he is being a dumbass. But we don't even sleep in the same bed as he snores like a pig, and haven't done for months. So once in a while I want some kind of physical contact, even if it is a quick cuddle.
I don't know why I lost it with him tonight as I have the same reaction from him every day when I ask for a cuddle. I just screamed at him then threw 2 screwdrivers at the wall (they happened to be in my hand at the time).
So anyway, being about to have his baby any day, I really feel like saying that he can't be at the birth as I don't see what bloody use he will be if he won't actually touch me. Is he just going to stand there and spectate like a lemon? I have a doula so I wouldn't be on my own.
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jendaisy · 24/07/2010 00:03
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