My otherwise adorable and incredibly clever ds is driving me mad over one tiny thing. He throws his cutlery/plate/juice cup and sometimes food at the end of virtually every meal.
Here's a bit of background about how we've dealt with it. First of all my dh or I would tell him off using the stern, low voice and look-into-his-eyes approach, and that went on for weeks with no difference whatsoever. After a while I tried to completely ignore his behaviour and just picked everything up. That made no difference either. We tried a star chart but I swear he decided it was more fun to throw stuff and star stickers just weren't worth it. Then we tried to get him to help pick the stuff up and he kept saying 'I'm helping Mummy clean up. I'm such a good boy'. We have also tried putting him in the naughty corner, but he would throw something and then say, 'Can I go in the naughty corner now?' I did wonder whether it was inconsistency that was the problem but honestly...this has been going on for months and each attempt at stopping it has lasted a good month or so. Oh, he doesn't do it at his childminders...just at home.
Last week in a fit of exasperation my dh and I decided to resort to bribery and promised him one chocolate button if he ate nicely after each meal. This lasted a week. Yesterday he threw something after each meal. Just now he ate his sandwich and satsuma beautifully and then picked up all the peel from the bowl and threw it like confetti.
He is such an otherwise beautiful child. He is kind and loving and has always slept and eaten like an angel. He also has an incredible vocab for his age. My sister thinks he is just too clever. Does anyone have any ideas before I go totally mental?
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to expect my ds (2.5) not to throw food
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debsmansfield · 19/07/2010 13:35
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