I am undergoing testing for ADHD. Part of this is having to fill out a very long and detailed questionnaire (mostly multi choice).
This is done online and when it's complete you send it, then it's gone and you no longer hacve access.
Another part was a Q for dh to fill in about me. He filled it in without any input from me, but I asked if I could read what he'd put, out of interest to see his view of me.
He let me read it, and I am so pissed off by some of his answers, as I genuinely think they could first of all sway the doctor as to my condition, and secondly make my answers look like a load of lies.
I told him I was amazed at some of his responses, but he refused to discuss it and clicked send, so it is now in the doctors hands.
I am massively pissed off as
- I think several of his answers were incorrect and could well sway doc.
- It makes me out to be a liar or just plain deluded.
- He didn't care enough to take 2 minutes to discuss and hear me out and just sent it off
- I genuinely think he doesn't know me very well based on some of his resonses.
For clarity,, examples to Q where I object to his answers are -
When you are talking with your wife, do you ever get the feeling she does not/is not listening to you.
He answered 'No' from the choice yes, no, sometimes. Now EVERY SINGLE TIME we argue, every time withou fail, he'll shout at me, "You're not listening to me" Every time.
Does your wife often leave things unfinished or forgotten leaving a trail of chaos and distruction. (rough translation) He answered No (again from choice of yes, no or sometimes)
Only last week I finally persuaded him to help me with the paperwork. We uncovered a reminder for a very important letter, the original I've lost that was a month late, a really importent bill that was 2 months late, the contract for our holiday which I'd forgotten to sign and send back and forgotten to pay for, amongst many other things including over a years worth of bank statements waiting to be filed.
One last example. Is she impatient? He answers no, well, he bloody doesn't bloody know me at all.
And there were many many such examples, to the point I feel he may have jeopardised my dx & treatment with the doc.
I was too angry last night to discuss with him. Don't know if it's worth it as it's done now and sent. I feel really hurt and angry.
AIBU? Or should I just accept his (bizarre) take on things?