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Try any of Robin McKinley, Sherwood Smith, Lois McMaster Bujold, Mercedes Lackey, Alison Croggan, Doris Egan. I am off to look up Julia Gray and Trudi Cavanan!
George R R Martin - Ice & Fire books (especially the first three). They are loaded with strong and complex female characters, in fact his characterisations all round are excellent.